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It's okay

Today, I want to say 'It's okay' to two groups of people.

First, the parents who were interviewed about the possibility of there being no exams for primary 1 and 2 kids (Sunday Times article). A significant number actually want exams for their children.

I think it is really okay for young children not to have exams. It's okay if they don't take exams seriously at first. It's okay if they only have four years (i.e. minus primary 1 and 2) of 'exam practice'. I mean, does 'practising' taking exams for another two years actually help you do better at the PSLE? It's okay to have mini topical 'tests' (in place of semestral exams) IF they are designed with the children in mind. I'd rather they were 'assessments' of different types. You don't need a pen-and-paper test to see what/how much/how well a kid has learnt something.

But I do agree with the person who said that if nothing changes for the remaining four years of primary school, it would be weird to have two years of 'fun' learning and then four years of torture.

I also want to say that it's okay if Roger Federer doesn't hit that magic 14th Grand Slam title. Goodness, he shouldn't break his heart over it lah. He has already achieved so much and he is considered by many to be one of the, if not the, greatest.

And maybe everyone else should just stop harping on it so that he wouldn't feel so much pressure.

Perhaps we can all learn something from Nadal, answering a question about how he thinks he'll do compared with Sampras and Federer:

Well, I have six right now, no? Happy with my six. Well, for sure I gonna continuing my best try every day for improve my tennis and for try to continuing win matches and titles.

But I know is very difficult, everything, no? Every title, I know how tough is win every one. I don't know if I gonna win more, but for sure I gonna continuing try. But, you know, when I won my first one I didn't know if I gonna be win more.

You never know when that stop. So you have to be always with precaution and you have to be humble for continuing work like all my life, no?


(From the AO website)

As for the AO, like many (and unlike some vocal ones), I thought the AO crown was Andy Murray's. Alas, it was not to be and probably we have to wait till the US Open to see if Murray is going to get his first crown. I have to confess that I didn't think Nadal would win it. Didn't count on his having improved so much.

I must also confess that, like many, I used to think that Nadal was just good for a string of French Open victories but look how he has blossomed into a champion on grass as well as hard court. And a true champion (at least in public) he is. It was so nice to see him climb over the net to hug Verdasco after their match, put his arm around Federer the other day and to be respectably muted in his celebrations whenever he beat Federer.

Anyhow, it will be a long, boring wait till the next Grand Slam.

Comments

fuzzoo said…
Making changes to the first 2 years of primary school and none to the later 4 is like changing into a blouse while not changing out of your pyjama pants. If they succeed in pushing for no exams in P1 and P2, opportunistic tuition centres might offer an "exam-smart programme" specifically training P1 and P2 kids to do well in exams and kiasu parents will enroll their kids there to give them an edge over their peers. What we need is a major overhaul in people's mindsets and not just these little changes to the system. If success as a parent is defined by how well your child behaves, whether they have good manners, display compassion, etc instead of academic performance, then this obsession with grades might end.
Anonymous said…
Ha ha, I like that - changing into your blouse but still wearing your pyjama pants. My guess is that we will have to wait another long while before they produce the skirt to go with the blouse.

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