H1N1 Battle Part 1

The boy is almost completing Day 4 in PICU. Poor boy, fighting H1N1 + some fearsome bacteria that has gotten into his lungs. It is no joke seeing your kid sedated and intubated.

And here I am stuck at home because I am also down with the flu. Must say that Tamiflu is pretty effective. On me anyway. But I think it's a very strong drug and not something to be taken lightly.

This ordeal is hammering home for me a number of life truths.

For example, there are more important things in life than what he's going to get for the PSLE (a lesson that had already come a-knocking when some other stuff happened earlier this year), or whether we are going to be able to watch Wimbledon on Starhub (I still don't know the answer), one thing being LIFE itself.

Some other things that come to mind now include 'being a good person'. I was very happy to hear recently from his teacher that he thinks the boy is a really good kid and then from my friend who told me that our priest had said a similar thing about him. Then, before I knew it, Father was standing in front of me, having come over to the hospital after finishing some duties in church after having just landed in Singapore! When Father prayed over him, the boy teared. Which brings me to a very important life truth: God is with us.

We have also been overwhelmed by the feeling that everybody is with us, Catholic, Christian or not. And that is just proof of another life truth: people are good by nature.

I realise that I may not be fully coherent in the post, with all that is happening now and under the influence of drugs (Tamiflu and others) but who cares.

Next instalment soon...

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